Why You’re Still Stuck (And How to Fix It)

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I keep seeing the same issue pop up in listening sessions, feedback groups, and even among seasoned writers.

You’ve probably been there yourself:

  • The lyrics feel right, but the song doesn’t land the way you want.

  • The melody feels perfect, but the guitar playing doesn’t match the emotion you’re trying to convey.

Here’s the truth: the problem usually isn’t the story you’re telling—it’s how you’re telling it.
And more often than not, it comes down to your guitar playing.


3 Mistakes That Keep Songwriters Stuck

 

1. Focusing on the Story, Not the Feeling

Yes, your story matters. But if people aren’t connecting with your song, it’s usually because they’re not feeling it. Emotions don’t just come from lyrics—they come from how your chords, melody, and rhythm work together.

Too often, songwriters don’t check whether their chords are actually supporting the emotion behind their lyrics. That’s a missed opportunity.

2. Lack of Clarity on How to Fix the Problem

Many songwriters get stuck because they don’t know where to start. They repeat the same chord progressions over and over, even when the lyrics and melody call for something new.

Every song has different emotional needs. Your chords should evolve to serve the vibe and story you’re telling.

3. Overcomplicating Guitar Playing

More complex doesn’t always mean better. Overly complicated riffs or chord voicings can muddy your song and dilute its impact.

Simplicity, paired with intentionality, almost always wins.


The Trap of “The Pause”

We’ve all been there. You start a new project full of ambition, and you’re sure this time it’ll be different. But then life happens. You take “a short break.”

At first, it doesn’t seem so bad. But that pause becomes a trap. Before you know it, you’re in the never-ending cycle of “I’ll get back to it soon.”

Let’s be clear: this isn’t a path to success.

The start of a creative journey is exciting. But it’s the follow-through that gets results.


Why Mentorship Matters

This is where mentorship comes in. Without guidance, it’s easy to stall out. But with the right support, you gain:

  • Accountability

  • Clarity

  • A clear path forward

Studies published in Forbes show that people with mentors are 70% more likely to succeed in reaching their goals. That’s because a mentor helps you avoid pitfalls, push past limits, and keep momentum alive.

Mentorship isn’t just for career growth. It’s fuel for breaking cycles, staying motivated, and unlocking the next level.


 

 


Melissa’s Story

Take Melissa Moss. Over the past 6 months, she’s sharpened her songwriting and production skills—all while balancing an incredibly busy schedule.

She committed to the process, stayed consistent, and leaned on support. And because of that:

  • She’s elevated her songwriting.

  • She’s set herself up to produce for other artists.

  • She just landed her first song in a sync catalog—a massive step that sets her up for even bigger wins in 2025.

Melissa’s story proves what happens when you stop pausing and start pushing forward with intention.


Your Next Step

If you’re stuck in “pause mode,” waiting for the perfect time, here’s your reminder: there is no perfect time.

What you need is momentum. What you need is support.

If you’re ready to move past the pause, transform your songwriting, and finally build the skills that will carry you forward in 2025—I’m here to help.

👉 Hit us up, and let’s talk about how we can make that happen.